Monthly Archives: December 2013

Convergence of the Generous and Those in Need

This Week’s Peeps Squeak Location: Ahrens Street West-King Street West (City Hall), Kitchener

Smack dab in the middle of a cold snap this week we headed back to the downtown Kitchener area to talk to some more folks about their holiday memories.

She said it was Santa’s magic.

Ken, 47

Ken, 47

Ken was shoveling snow in front of a beautiful home on Ahrens Street. There was something about Ken that exuded the Christmas spirit as he reminisced about his grandmother’s 12 foot tall tree in Markham. “We went out and picked it out and left it on our porch. I don’t know how she got it so white, but every year when we came back, it was all white. Of course, she said it was Santa’s magic.”
Turns out Ken, who has only lived in Kitchener for two years himself, was shoveling a resident’s walk as a volunteer of the House Of Friendship. He explained for a small donation, anyone in need of having their walk shoveled can contact the House Of Friendship.

John was just returning from the Yuletide concert at Centre in the Square when we met him. He shared fond memories of holidays spent with his in-laws. His father-in-law passed away 10 years ago, but left behind 50 grandchildren whom John and his family still celebrate with, in Preston. John was proud to say he has 9 grandchildren of his own.

John, 71

John, 71

Although Martin, 28, says he never got what he wanted for Christmas as a kid growing up near Rome, Italy, and always ended up with “something that was wrong, like a pair of gloves”—he is planning on spending part of his first Christmas in Canada volunteering in a kitchen for the homeless.

Martin is planning on spending part of his first Christmas in Canada volunteering in a kitchen for the homeless.

No sooner had Martin finished telling us his volunteer plans, when we met James, 32, who could benefit from the services of someone like Martin this Christmas. He was trying to make 10 bucks on the streets, begging for change when we met him. As someone who has been on the streets for a couple of years now, and has done so in Toronto, Cambridge, and London, James says it gets harder every day to make a dollar. “I’ve got to talk to about 400 people to get one dollar. These people in their suits, they don’t want to help you. It’s almost like you have to come up with some sort of con.”
“If people gave you a dollar two years ago, they remember you and hold it against you.” James was a guilty reminder of my own reaction to a homeless woman I ran into twice six months apart.

Dennis & Maria

Dennis & Maria

Meanwhile, Maria and Dennis were across the street watching children ice skating. In Maria’s home town of Pasto, Columbia, she would run with a suitcase on New Year’s Eve. “It is a tradition which means you will travel,” says Maria, 43, who arrived in Kitchener 7 years ago.

Dennis, 40, is just taking Christmas and Boxing Day off from his job a Crawford Adjusters.

An elderly man coming out of an apartment building near King and Charles smiled at first as he recalled Christmas memories. But then he paused and said, “There’s been a few but I just want Christmas over with this year,” and walked away down the street, carrying his troubles with him.

Helen, 24, was drawn by the festive lights to travel the path to the Victoria park clock and away from the bus she was awaiting. From Nairobi, Kenya, and spending her first Christmas in Kitchener, she kept commenting on the beauty of the lights while asking if it was safe in the park. “It’s beautiful, but is it safe?”

Victoria Park Clock

In Nairobi, Helen and her family would spend Christmas at a nice lodge and celebrate with a barbecue. Here, she raises her mittened hands to the heavens, catching the snowflakes as they fall. “I love the snow,” she says.

We took shelter in Candy Candy Candy (I can’t let you go), on Queen Street, South, where we found obscure candy cane flavours like Bacon, Wasabi and Gravy. If you still haven’t found a present for the ultimate scrooge on your list, the flavorless Bah Humbug candy cane may be exactly what you’re looking for. “No stripes, no flavour and no spirit,” explains store owner, Dave, who just happened to be celebrating the stores first anniversary. The kid of the candy store, Dave, says he can’t remember whether he’s 38 or 39. “I stopped counting once everything was legal,” he claims. Iggy Pop fans will recognize where the store gets the “I can’t let you go” part of its name.

Dave, owner of  Candy, Candy, Candy (I'll never let you go)

Dave, owner of Candy, Candy, Candy (I’ll never let you go)

Struggling against the bitter cold and the dark night with a dead cell phone, we were having trouble finding our way back to our parked car on Ahrens Street when we met Claude, who offered to show us the way since he was heading in our direction. Carrying a small grandfather clock half covered in snow which he salvaged from someone’s garbage, I sensed Claude had a story to share when he asked us for two dollars to take the bus home. Turns out the 49 year old has only been out of prison for six months, after serving 18 years in jail for drug, alcohol and gang-related crimes. “I got in with the wrong crowd,” he explained. A trained barber, Claude now struggles to find any type of work. “Once you have a record, no one will hire you.”

Claude, 49

Claude, 49

So far, we’ve encountered as much sorrow in the streets of Kitchener as we have joy. But in this season of promised hope and renewal, we are thankful for the Ken’s and Martin’s of the city who are working to turn hardships into a little happiness for the people they serve.

Our next holiday entry will be from Victoria Park, Waterloo.

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Remembrance of Holidays Past

This Week’s Peeps Squeak Location: King Street, Kitchener (Between Cameron and Eby Streets)

December seemed like a great time of year to start this adventure. We knew Christmas would be a touchy subject with a lot of people, but at the same time, what better way could we launch a blog sharing people’s stories than to ask them to share their holiday memories? We quickly learned asking people to share their favourite Christmas memories forced an automatic shut-down. The first man we approached was busily working to enclose his front porch on Cameron Street in plexiglass for the winter. “I don’t have any memories, thank you. I’m not big on Christmas.”

After a few responses like this, including a woman walking with two young girls between 7-10, who told us she lost her grand daughter at Christmas, we adjusted our question to, “What holiday memory can you share with us?” It seemed it was the “favourite” part that was triggering a back away response.

Oscar, 24

Oscar works two jobs and he’s looking forward to good times with his co-workers.

Oscar, 24, whose family lives in Toronto and Montreal, says he won’t have much of a holiday because he works two jobs—at Fox and the Fiddle, and Crabby Joe’s—but he’s looking forward to good times with co-workers.

After Oscar left us, we met a man whose age was hard to gauge because of the years of hardship in his face. He was pushing a bicycle with a dark, oblong, enclosed canvas bag over the handles. Neither of us had any money in our pockets. When we couldn’t give him a dollar, he started to say that if we couldn’t do anything for him, he had nothing to say to us. But then he just started to talk.
“I’ve spent six days in the bush, have not had anything to eat in five days and have not slept for 18 hours.”

“I stole this bike to get around,” he matter-of-factly stated.

“You stole the bike?” I was more or less just confirming.

“Yes. I had to,” he said—and I couldn’t argue with him, given his situation.

Then he asked us for an onion. “What would you do with an onion?” I  naively asked. “I can survive for two days on an onion,” he replied. And we couldn’t even give him that.

“I can survive for two days on an onion.”

Sal and Traci, both 24, came strolling along together. “I got a Rasta wallet when I was in grade 8 and I can remember opening it,” explains Sal, of his fondest Christmas memory. For ginger-haired Traci, her best memory is far more recent. “I was killing time in Coffee Culture and just enjoyed the ambiance of the Christmas music and decorations.”

Albis and Grace

Albis and Grace are exchange students from Singapore.

Albis, 23, and Grace, 21, are exchange students from Singapore who return to their home country at the end of December. “The snow is new to us. We are from a tropical country and haven’t seen snow.” Albis is also looking forward to skiing.
Grace’s fondest memory of Canada is seeing the Northern Lights in Yellow Knife.

Ben and Cindy, both 22, have been in Canada for just under six years. Ben involuntarily spent his first Christmas in Canada when he was trying to return home to Hong Kong and all weather cancellations kept him grounded at Pearson airport for three days.

Ben and Cindy

Ben and Cindy moved here six years ago from Hong Kong.

Watch for further updates to this story as we interview more of the folks we meet in downtown Kitchener.

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